This exchange on the thread shows the difference between male "transbians" and female "queers". The man is whining about his penis feels and calling women "c*nts", while the woman is writing long essays explaining her reasoning for calling out his misogynistic or predatory behavior while singing the praises of TWAW. And yet, on a sub called "actual lesbians"...I saw not a single actual lesbian. Our erasure continues at full pace.

FutureFutaTransbian 2 points 1 day ago I keep hearing these stories but it's like I'm ugly or something. Men are never in my DMs when my face is visible & I've been told I don't look masculine

SirIsaacGlut3nGenderqueer-Bi 9 points 20 hours ago Nothing to do with ugliness. Men do not care. you do not want people to treat you this way.

FutureFutaTransbian 1 point 10 hours ago (I removed two imgur links the commenter linked to) Take your pic on what meme fits my stance. It beats random cunts online calling me Chris-chan

[–]SirIsaacGlut3nGenderqueer-Bi2 points 9 hours ago It’s not about a stance, it’s the truth. Being objectified and sexualized by men, or anyone really, is horrible. The reality of being objectified and dealing with that sort of thing is that it can lead to internalized misogyny and self-objectification. That isn’t healthy, it isn’t something anyone should want because it isn’t any better than being called a bitch or a cunt (which they will do if you reject them). Being objectified is a direct facet of rape culture. When we allow people to objectify us like this, it tells them it’s okay and it’s alright to treat all women like this. It’s so dangerous. I am sorry people do that to you, I am, that’s horrific and not okay in the slightest. But please please please listen when we are telling you that there is repercussions to allowing objectification like this. It is telling little girls and boys that it’s okay to look and talk to and treat others like this. It is telling adults that it is okay (as if they need any more permission). It is telling people that it’s okay and healthy. And it’s really, really not. It’s okay to be a sexual creature, but I don’t want anyone ever to feel like or be okay with feeling like an object.