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[–]MarkJeffersonTight defenses and we draw the line 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

6 years later she still feels like you do, and having a half-baked marriage bc one partner can't/won't/doesn't have the ability to accept and love the other is a huge mistake and a guarantee of a grind.

This is the overall theme of the takes there; That it's exclusively her fault.

The dance of opposite genders is deeply rooted in evolution and highly trained into everyone with elaborate enforcement. We are taught that cross gender activity is wrong, deviant, confused, etc.

Ah, yeah... evolution. Sounds like evopsych. I'm pretty sure these modern gender roles are a relatively recent development.

Anyway, I agree with most there that they should call it off. Though obviously I think for different reasons then they do there.