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[–]lunarstrain 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

It's gotten arguably even worse than when I was a teenager. This stuff really messes with your head, I went from being so certain and comfortable with myself to being utterly confused within a year. I know now that for me it basically went:

Straight -> bi -> lesbian -> straight (in the form of many stupid labels) -> "trans inclusive lesbian" (bi) -> lesbian

It forced me back into the closet but it was somehow me finding my true self. I tried really hard to muster up any attraction to men at all, including estrogenized men. I felt so much guilt about it that I attempted DIY conversion therapy. So stupid.

[–]INeedSomeTimeAsexual Ally 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Oh god, that makes me sad. It reminds me of a "lesbian" who claims to be trans inclusive but I have a feeling that she truly isn't trans inclusive. Her personality simply makes her afraid to set any boundaries.