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[–]CaptainMooseEx-Bathhouse Employee 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

These people see gays as nothing but something to use. And as soon as gays don't serve them, they lash out with homophobia. The only value gays have to these people is what they can do for them.

They don't even need to be TiFs to pull this type of shit. In previous jobs, I've been put through attempts at constructive dismissal for not being the "fun" gay and being a stickler for rules by my conservative, Christian manager (another, older, gay man working there who fit the GBF role to a T relayed to me some of the fucked up shit she said about me to him and gave me a crash course on how to deal with it). I've had female friends drop me for having boundaries and for having real needs that need to be addressed, especially financial and housing ones, before I could give them a fun night at a gay bar.