DiscussionLesbians, are you afraid of each other?

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[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 8 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 2 fun -  (7 children)

What biphobia? Not wanting to have a long term relationship with a bisexual woman isn't biphobia. Don't know if you get that, but bisexuals speaking like that do sound like pathetic entitled queers. If complaining like you're owned being dated is pathetic and abusive, doing it toward a very small group of people while being privileged having a big dating poll, it is immoral.

[–]PatsyStoneMaverique[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

Biphobia as hatred of bisexual women. If you dehumanize, belittle, abuse, degrade, or devalue bisexual woman you are biphobic.

Also, feel free to explain to MyLongestJourney why the way she treated me on this thread isn't acceptable. I'll just keep asking every lesbian who comes by until someone talks to her.

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

One of the most important things to learn to improve your mental health it is don't giving too much importance to what it is out of your control, including people thoughts about you. Also I don't see her being abusive and degrading of anyone.

[–]PatsyStoneMaverique[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

You're wrong.

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I'm not wrong that giving lots of power to what it is out of your control is unwise and only causing you grief. Also you been very emotional. Your question was quite strange and can be seen as provocation. Normal then to have sarcastic defensive answer by a lesbian after you have accused the category of being bad and scary lol I mean sure there are assholes, but the attack on the different or someone who doesn't fit the standard of a group it isnt surely a lesbian thing, but an human toxic behaviour, and minorities aren't free from toxic human inclinations. But it is aburd that you relly thought this was specifically lesbian thing and that lesbians would be afraid of others like them. The greek lady just gave you an answer a normal lesbian would ( that are men the ones by whom women in general are scared, not others women). Her sarcasm and bitter answer were just consequences of having a bisexual making negative generalization over her category. Normal reaction

[–]MyLongestJourney 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Thanks Italian friend,you get it completely.

[–]PatsyStoneMaverique[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

It's not a normal reaction, it's an unreasonable reaction. She also kept it up after it was clear that I wasn't making a generalization and was sincerely asking the question. I also said the same in the OP, which she missed, but maybe she misread.

I also don't think if you, Elvira, made me angry and I proceeded to address you as "my dear lesbian" and make snappy remarks and ask you "satisfied, lesbian?" that you would think I was justified in speaking to you that way. You would think that I was deeply prejudiced and would 1. expect me to apologize and 2. expect other bisexuals to correct me for being so vicious to you.

She also thought it was acceptable to laugh at me being sexually assaulted, what's your excuse for that?

Tell her she's being overly emotional, tell her she's misunderstanding. I'm not being unreasonable demanding respectful treatment.

[–]MyLongestJourney 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

What are you doing here really? In your previous posts you described this sub as dead and said it should be shut down.So,what gives?