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You don't sound like a broken record, it's the TQ+ ideology that is just staying the same shit. And I'm happy to have someone who gets me, so thank you for being around and reading my vents, means a lot !

I'm not that much around them (except online...) but yeah I have a friend who's fully commited to that BS. That's how I get to see the TQ+ people and to huh, observe and listen to their stupid shit. Which is funny because if the point was to make me more "open-minded" well... That just confirms how stupid I think all of this is. They're just proving right the assholes that actually wants to hurt GNC and homosexual people by trying to pretend they're the opposite gender and shit. Like there's a right way to be a woman or a man. Such a dumb movement...

I don't think I'll cut ties. But I'll tell what is on my mind if a line is crossed. Not to the crew, but just to my friend. And if after that she thinks I'm too mean/cold or whatever, well that's just life. Before that, I don't care. I won't pretend those people are my close mates or anything. I'll just do my own shit and also hang out with normies who don't mind me being who I am.

For the anger part, I don't think it will ever go away to be fair, it's something we have to manage. People are just infuriating in general to be honest and they've always been for so many things I don't even know why I'm still surprised by how badly they can treat each others. That's just... life I guess. Some have it worse, some better but again, it is what it is so we're just bothering ourselves until we learn how to say "ok fuck it" I guess...

But hey overall thank you for reacting, and thank you for being around. I'm sorry all of this shit is also affecting you at work, this shouldn't have it's place anywhere else than tumblr... Please feel free to share how you feel and your thoughs in general, don't isolate yourself and take time away from all of this when you can. I don't know if you can change your work to go somewhere less TQ+-ish...? I know for some work it's pretty hard, and also finding a job is not that easy... But if it's for your mental healt and general well being you could check different places if that's possible. I don't know I'm maybe too naive but I wouldn't want you to lose your mind over those clowns. Anyway... Take care RC and stay safe, again, I'm usually around if you need to vent or empty your mind of what's bothering you.