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[–]MarkJeffersonTight defenses and we draw the line 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They should be viewed in a more neutral fashion. No glorifying or stigmatizing. But this is harder for people to do.

In addition, either approach is bad because it creates very reactive conditions that can have can have unfair consequences for how these things are handled down the line. One pulls the string and lets go(or loses control) and it may snap the other way and back again, perhaps for years or generations.