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[–][deleted] 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

It was pretty common in the past. Horatio Nelson for instance on his death bed wanted to be kissed by his best friend who had taken over command after he had been shot. Guy was totally straight in his many romantic/sexual escapades at least from what we can see. It was just considered to be more of an affectionate thing for close friends at the time. Considering he was dying despite his vainglorious nature I assumed he was still also scared and needed intimacy from a close friend.

British media though much later tried to censor this fact because it could hurt the image of masculinity a national martyr should have.

[–]fuck_reddit 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

People don’t realize how common kissing was in the pre-modern past, and not as a gesture of intimacy. It was part of the liturgy for the Patriarch of Constantinople and the Byzantine Emperor to share “the kiss of peace.” A less formal variation existed in the West between the Pope and kings. Something tells me they weren’t all closet cases…

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah it was common to give a kiss to your lord when giving homage in medieval Europe too. Right on the lips lol.