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[–]CaptainMooseEx-Bathhouse Employee 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Because there was a huge push a decade ago when Grindr first started becoming popular about how putting "no X" on your profile was prejudiced. Gay men were shamed and doxxed for asserting boundaries by one another. Other people outside of gay men starting piling on to shame gay men for being "racist" or "fatphobic" all the while straight, white women could swipe right on Tinder on any guy darker than Italian and heavier than what he can lift without facing the same backlash.