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[–]Fusrodamus 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

This bears repeating: When dealing with a narcissist, a false accusation is a confession.

This doesn't mean narcissists are incapable of accusing people of things they've actually done. But when you encounter an accusation that's entirely baseless, you shouldn't waste time examining it or speculating on where it came from. That's what they want. They want you to waste your time and energy on something that distracts you from their own misdeeds.

They're incels and they know it. That's why they accuse others of being incels while never providing any examples of those people complaining about not being able to get laid.

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 10 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

When dealing with a narcissist, a false accusation is a confession.

This is the most succinct way to put it. A baseless accusation from them is them telling on themselves. This also goes for people with other Cluster B personality disorders who have strong narcissistic traits.