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[–]hufflepuff-poet 24 insightful - 1 fun24 insightful - 0 fun25 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I hate how they assume gay men only have anal sex, straight people have such a limited view of sex it's all PiV or P in some 🕳️. Sex is more than just a dick in a vagina, if you're gay that's probably the one type of sex you don't want by default.

[–]Mikulbleu 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Sometimes 69 is all you need

[–]dramasexual 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Don't know much about gay male sex, honestly, but I've always found the straight obsession with PIV bizarre too. Like anything that isn't PIV doesn't "count" as real sex. I remember a conversation I had with a straight friend a while back and she commented that some couple couldn't date because they didn't have access to birth control. I said something like "well they could date and just not do PIV" and she looked at me like I had just earnestly argued the moon was made of cheese. It was wild to me. I do wonder sometimes if it's all cultural attitudes or if there's something inherent to a heterosexual orientation that I just can't understand because I'm gay. Like they have some specific psychological/sexual need that is completely alien to me so they're confused when I don't have it and I'm confused when they do.

So it really doesn't surprise me that straights fixate on anal for gay men since it's the closest "replacement" to PIV they can think of.