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[–]Virginia_Plain 13 insightful - 3 fun13 insightful - 2 fun14 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah, there's a virtue signal element to it. The other guys I've met who are genuinely into FTM people (which is fine in itself) have had an "evangelical" approach (not cool). Have had conversations about sex steered towards the subject, and it's usually done pretty awkwardly and patronizingly.

Not sure what the motivation is...are they trying to make themselves feel better about sleeping with trans men, and that "real gays" should be into anyone who "identifies" as male? I've noticed that a lot of them had been in relationships with women before, so that might explain some of it.