LGB ErasureIf you don't want to suck dick, you're not a lesbian.

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[–]UWUness 13 insightful - 3 fun13 insightful - 2 fun14 insightful - 3 fun -  (13 children)

If you really choose to be gay, you clearly a bisexual woman who prefer others women, and so choose to be with only women. Homosexuality isn't a choice.

I'm not "bisexual". And even if I were before*, I have successfully turned off all "attraction" to men and feel nothing toward them. It's other women that I am attracted to. For all practical purposes, I am a lesbian, who chose her path despite widespread discrimination.

For me is only about the far highr chances to finding someone right. I do find relationship with women superior in everything comparing to relationship with men, I think women are just better, sexually and emotionally, but being part of a super small minority doesn't make life easy. Even in a country where homosexuality is accepted, the dating odds are far worst when your dating poll is severely restricted. That's why I'm not so happy about total homosexuality, nothing to do with homophobia. I like to be lesbian, I just don't like the stats.

The frustration with dating pools is understandable; however, think of it this way. Most, if not all, of the men that claim to be "into" women one way or another are misogynistic, and if there were no laws restricting them, they would be constantly groping, cat-calling and "assaulting" women. The history of men doing as they wish to women is not pretty.

"Better to have no friends than to have fake friends". Change that to, "better to stay single than to be with someone who's only there to get in my pants".

Men that claim to be "into" women do not care for women on average. Most "sexual assault" cases are done by the very men women believe they can trust, their partners, and spouses for instance.

As for the statistics, if the population of the openly gay people were 3%, it would be: 7 billion x 3% = 210,000,000

Women would be half the population: 210,000,000/2 = 105,000,000

You have about 105,000,000 openly gay women in your dating pool, as long as you are open to dating women of ethnicities that are different from yours.

It is a large number in my view that can keep you satisfied.

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa[S] 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (12 children)

I'm not "bisexual". And even if I were, I have successfully turned off all "attraction" to men and feel nothing toward them. It's other women that I am attracted to. For all practical purposes, I am a lesbian, who chose her path despite widespread discrimination.

And that's explain all your comments. You don't get what it means not to be able to be sex attracted to male. You did a conscious choice of ignoring your hetero attraction and think that how sexuality works, that you choose it. Well, thats not the case. You're still bi, with women leaning, but not actually homosexual. Real homosexual isn't a choice, only bi women can say to choose a sex over another.

Also your idea towards men is quite unfair. Most men are decent people, and there are surely more decent men than the are women into women. Being a lesbian doesn't mean hating men or being repulsed by them,just being unable to get aroused by them.

Also, I think real homosexuality is like 1-2 percent. If you add bi women, than we could get to 5-7. I don't date all over the world. I would date in my country/region I'm in. I could date in others European countries, but I'm not gonna date in Africa or India or whatever. Not because I'm against dating others races than white, but because people date within their geographical location. And most countries still aren't accepting of gay people, meaning most lesbians there don't accept or realize their sexuality and end up with husbands and kids anyway.

[–]UWUness 12 insightful - 4 fun12 insightful - 3 fun13 insightful - 4 fun -  (11 children)

And that's explain all your comments. You don't get what it means not to be able to be sex attracted to male. You did a conscious choice of ignoring your hetero attraction and think that how sexuality works, that you choose it. Well, thats not the case. You're still bi, with women leaning, but not actually homosexual. Real homosexual isn't a choice, only bi women can say to choose a sex over another.

It makes no sense for me to be "female-leaning bisexual" anymore. You dismissed the part I explained to you that I feel nothing, absolutely nothing, toward men. If I were "bisexual", I would feel something and I don't.

I used to feel something 7+ years ago and did not act on the feeling. Instead, I turned that feeling off (converting myself from "female-leaning bisexual" to "lesbian"). I've never been with men, and never will be. There's no difference between me, and a woman claiming to be a lesbian that "didn't choose lesbianism" who dates women. For all practical purposes, we are the same. It's that I chose what I want to be.

Also your idea towards men is quite unfair. Most men are decent people

Nope. Most men are misogynistic and get off on choking and "r-ping" women (hence why they are the top "p-rn" searches).

Don't forget most of them are religious and use Christianity, Islam and Judaism to oppress women and push them to stay at home and mop the kitchen floor for them.

For most of history, men have been indecent. And to this day, they have not changed.

Also, I think real homosexuality is like 1-2 percent

I think the percentages of openly gay people are way higher than that-

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa[S] 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (10 children)

If you were not bisexual, you would have never be attracted to men to begin with. The point of being an homosexual is that we cannot be attracted to the opposite sex. It isn't like we can be attracted but then shut off our attraction to opposite sex because we think opposite sex is full of bad rapists.

You're a so called political lesbian, bi women who choose to only focus on homo attraction because they hate men. I don't have nothing against febfem, actuallyI like they exist, you increase our polls, but , for fuck sake, your idea of sexuality is totally wrong, cause you don't get total homosexuality, since you're not to begin with, your biological is able to be male attracted, unlike myself who has never been able, even though I wished, even when I had a chemistry with an handsome funny guy I could totally see myself happy with but I couldn't be attracted only due to sex. Your views are not only wrong, but they also dangerous, they support conversion therapy. Because if we can choose our sexuality, a gay who doesn't like to be such and wants a normal het life, could be able to get toremove their homo attraction like you said to do with your hetero attraction, but they cannot, because real homosexuality doesn't allow you to be hetero attracted, even if you want to.