LGB ErasureIf you don't want to suck dick, you're not a lesbian.

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[–]Elvira95Viva la figa[S] 13 insightful - 8 fun13 insightful - 7 fun14 insightful - 8 fun -  (61 children)

Probably very young. He is cute though, very soft feature, I would fuck if I were bi lol

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (57 children)

That's such a weird thing to say as a ''lesbian''. Sei sicura di esserne una? lol

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa[S] 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (56 children)

Totalmente sicura. Era una battuta. Posso riconoscere che un ragazzo è carino, senza volermelo fare.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 3 fun -  (55 children)

Sì ma ricordo che avevi detto anche che ti affascinasse Damiano dei Maneskin o una cosa del genere...Cioè non è la prima volta che decanti il tuo amore per questo tipo di ragazzi, la trovo una cosa un po' ''sospetta'', tutto qui...

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa[S] 8 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 2 fun -  (53 children)

No, sono totalmente sicura di non essere minimamente interessata al cazzo. Credimi, che vorrei tanto non fosse il caso, ma sono totalmente omo.Però ci sono ragazzi dai tratti androgini che possono confondermi il cervello, per quanto riguarda l'attrazione. Ovviamente, quando penso al pene, tutto l'interesse sparisce

[–]UWUness 13 insightful - 3 fun13 insightful - 2 fun14 insightful - 3 fun -  (40 children)

Believe me, I wish this weren't the case, but I'm a lesbian

Whoa there.

I should have expected someone that's so obsessed with the claim that "I couldn't have possibly chosen to be gay" is homophobic ...

All the "born this way" people are homophobic. You make it sound like "gay" is something you wished you could get rid of, but can't because "omg genes and hormones".

I would always choose to be gay, regardless of what we openly gay people experience in society.

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa[S] 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (39 children)

I would be bisexual if I could, but of course I cannot choose my sexuality, cannot make myself getting aroused by dick and males, as that isn't a biological thing I can choose. For me is only about the far highr chances to finding someone right. I do find relationship with women superior in everything comparing to relationship with men, I think women are just better, sexually and emotionally, but being part of a super small minority doesn't make life easy. Even in a country where homosexuality is accepted, the dating odds are far worst when your dating poll is severely restricted. That's why I'm not so happy about total homosexuality, nothing to do with homophobia.I like to be a lesbian, I just don't like the stats.

If you really choose to be gay, you clearly a bisexual woman who prefer others women, and so choose to be with only women. Homosexuality isn't a choice.

[–]UWUness 13 insightful - 3 fun13 insightful - 2 fun14 insightful - 3 fun -  (38 children)

If you really choose to be gay, you clearly a bisexual woman who prefer others women, and so choose to be with only women. Homosexuality isn't a choice.

I'm not "bisexual". And even if I were before*, I have successfully turned off all "attraction" to men and feel nothing toward them. It's other women that I am attracted to. For all practical purposes, I am a lesbian, who chose her path despite widespread discrimination.

For me is only about the far highr chances to finding someone right. I do find relationship with women superior in everything comparing to relationship with men, I think women are just better, sexually and emotionally, but being part of a super small minority doesn't make life easy. Even in a country where homosexuality is accepted, the dating odds are far worst when your dating poll is severely restricted. That's why I'm not so happy about total homosexuality, nothing to do with homophobia. I like to be lesbian, I just don't like the stats.

The frustration with dating pools is understandable; however, think of it this way. Most, if not all, of the men that claim to be "into" women one way or another are misogynistic, and if there were no laws restricting them, they would be constantly groping, cat-calling and "assaulting" women. The history of men doing as they wish to women is not pretty.

"Better to have no friends than to have fake friends". Change that to, "better to stay single than to be with someone who's only there to get in my pants".

Men that claim to be "into" women do not care for women on average. Most "sexual assault" cases are done by the very men women believe they can trust, their partners, and spouses for instance.

As for the statistics, if the population of the openly gay people were 3%, it would be: 7 billion x 3% = 210,000,000

Women would be half the population: 210,000,000/2 = 105,000,000

You have about 105,000,000 openly gay women in your dating pool, as long as you are open to dating women of ethnicities that are different from yours.

It is a large number in my view that can keep you satisfied.

[–]MezozoicGayoldschool gay 8 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 2 fun -  (24 children)

So you are saying you can change your sexuality? That sounds pretty homophobic.

You shouldn't be projecting your experience on all homosexual people, because we never had any attraction to opposite sex, and never will be able to. Saying that it was our choice means we could chose to be heterosexual, yet conversion therapy never worked - even for people who really wanted to become straight.

[–]UWUness 9 insightful - 5 fun9 insightful - 4 fun10 insightful - 5 fun -  (23 children)

Actually, "I couldn't have possibly chosen to be gay" is what's homophobic. You make it sound like it's something you would never want to be, but have to deal with because "it's not a choice".

I changed my "sexuality" and became a lesbian. That's what it feels like to me. And I'm very happy with my choices. I chose this, despite the discrimination I have to deal with. It gets the knickers of the homophobes in a twist, and makes them "upset", and I'm happy with that. It's an indirect slap in their faces.

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa[S] 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (12 children)

I'm not "bisexual". And even if I were, I have successfully turned off all "attraction" to men and feel nothing toward them. It's other women that I am attracted to. For all practical purposes, I am a lesbian, who chose her path despite widespread discrimination.

And that's explain all your comments. You don't get what it means not to be able to be sex attracted to male. You did a conscious choice of ignoring your hetero attraction and think that how sexuality works, that you choose it. Well, thats not the case. You're still bi, with women leaning, but not actually homosexual. Real homosexual isn't a choice, only bi women can say to choose a sex over another.

Also your idea towards men is quite unfair. Most men are decent people, and there are surely more decent men than the are women into women. Being a lesbian doesn't mean hating men or being repulsed by them,just being unable to get aroused by them.

Also, I think real homosexuality is like 1-2 percent. If you add bi women, than we could get to 5-7. I don't date all over the world. I would date in my country/region I'm in. I could date in others European countries, but I'm not gonna date in Africa or India or whatever. Not because I'm against dating others races than white, but because people date within their geographical location. And most countries still aren't accepting of gay people, meaning most lesbians there don't accept or realize their sexuality and end up with husbands and kids anyway.

[–]UWUness 12 insightful - 4 fun12 insightful - 3 fun13 insightful - 4 fun -  (11 children)

And that's explain all your comments. You don't get what it means not to be able to be sex attracted to male. You did a conscious choice of ignoring your hetero attraction and think that how sexuality works, that you choose it. Well, thats not the case. You're still bi, with women leaning, but not actually homosexual. Real homosexual isn't a choice, only bi women can say to choose a sex over another.

It makes no sense for me to be "female-leaning bisexual" anymore. You dismissed the part I explained to you that I feel nothing, absolutely nothing, toward men. If I were "bisexual", I would feel something and I don't.

I used to feel something 7+ years ago and did not act on the feeling. Instead, I turned that feeling off (converting myself from "female-leaning bisexual" to "lesbian"). I've never been with men, and never will be. There's no difference between me, and a woman claiming to be a lesbian that "didn't choose lesbianism" who dates women. For all practical purposes, we are the same. It's that I chose what I want to be.

Also your idea towards men is quite unfair. Most men are decent people

Nope. Most men are misogynistic and get off on choking and "r-ping" women (hence why they are the top "p-rn" searches).

Don't forget most of them are religious and use Christianity, Islam and Judaism to oppress women and push them to stay at home and mop the kitchen floor for them.

For most of history, men have been indecent. And to this day, they have not changed.

Also, I think real homosexuality is like 1-2 percent

I think the percentages of openly gay people are way higher than that-

[–]NutterButterFlutterStill waving into the void[M] 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (10 children)

English please, not gonna try to mod what you two are talking about through Google translate.

[–]UWUness 2 insightful - 4 fun2 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 4 fun -  (9 children)

u/septemberfall20x asked if u/Elvira95 is a lesbian, because Elv claimed she would "f*ck" some guy if she weren't a lesbian, to which Elv responded with: "oh believe me, I'm a lesbian. I wish this weren't the case, but it is" ...

Are you going to do anything about the internalized homophobia?

[–][deleted] 6 insightful - 5 fun6 insightful - 4 fun7 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

Sure.

Hey users, try not to have internalized homophobia. We'll support you in working your way out of it if you're willing.

Anything else you'd like internet forum mods to do for free?

[–]PatsyStoneMaverique 4 insightful - 5 fun4 insightful - 4 fun5 insightful - 5 fun -  (7 children)

You speak Italian too? How many Italians are there here?

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa[S] 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I think I can count 2 or 3 girls beside me. Don't you like italians, love? lol

[–]UWUness 6 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 3 fun -  (5 children)

I'm not italian. I'm asian. But I learned latin in highschool, and 99+% of italian vocabulary derived from latin, so I understood their comments.

I remember how cool I found it that my latin teacher would understand french, italian, spanish, portuguese, and romanian, just because she knew the basis of these languages, latin. And I tried to learn it :D

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa[S] 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

Very impressive, girl. I've got a fascination with asian women, defintely on my bucket list t of sexual fantasies (don't misuderstand, I've got zero fetish, just curiosity over other cultures and races, and like the general asian features) But that doesn't change the fact that your arguments make no sense, of course.

[–]PatsyStoneMaverique 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Well look at you! That's impressive. The only people who took Latin where I lived were planning on going into medicine.

[–]NutterButterFlutterStill waving into the void[M] 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

English please, not gonna try to mod what you two are talking about through Google translate.