I can’t go on to gay men’s subreddits without getting some sort of transphobia. Sometimes I have the energy to reach out and be open to help educate. But more and more I’m just tired.

Goodness knows we need to continue to remain completely unwelcoming and exhausting to those who don't belong in our spaces.

Unfortunately for us lezzies, gay men do have the advantage here. Transmen are much more sensitive to rejection, and except for those afflicted with severe personality disorders, are likely to eventually stop harassing men when they are turned away over and over again. Transwomen often seem to have a humiliation fetish and in my experience completely get off on the discomfort they cause women in their own spaces, it's totally part of the thrill.