This is a tough one for me, as a lesbian who has always identified as a 'feminist'. I think about this a lot.

I am generalizing, but women have many lovely qualities that allow them to successfully ensure their children survive to adulthood, and one of these qualities can be an overabundance of empathy. An overabundance of empathy can easily be used against us, and often is. Also these women have been completely brainwashed into believing they are the oppressor class, and that 'love conquers all' - exemplified by the "Hate has no place here" slogan leftists like to toss around while they destroy cities and institutions that support civilization.

Maybe it also comes down to naivete, because these women don't seem at all to understand that the groups they are putting themselves on the line to support have nothing but contempt for them. Transwomen hate and are jealous of women, whether AGPs or HSTS, Muslims want to subjugate and rape them, and Zionists want to flood their homelands with more people who will rape and assault white people, and destroy their resources and tenants of their civilization. It doesn't matter how enthusiastically we join in the struggle session and whip ourselves for being born white, they will still hate and want to destroy us.

A thought I'm playing with, but women seem to lack the tribalism drive that men have. War and conquest is such an innate drive for men (maybe primates even? FFS, male chimpanzees gather together in groups and go kill males in other territories, then mate with the females.) and maybe women just don't understand that. We are not going to be better off with black people in charge, or Muslims in charge, or women entirely in charge. European men have brought massive improvements to the world as a whole, which has allowed all people, including women or maybe most especially women, to live better fuller lives.

However, women are more anxiety-ridden than ever. Why? Is it because we have been thrown into, or now try to take on, traditionally masculine roles of provider and protector, and simply don't have the biology to successfully do that? Is it because more women are not having children, and their anxiety has no focus and becomes generalized?

I don't know what the answers are. I agree with you, and I guess I'm just trying to figure out why exactly women are doing this to ourselves.