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[–]DimDroog 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Gay men don’t get enjoyment out of having sex with women. We get repulsed by it.

I wish people understood this.

I hope to heck this guy is bisexual, b/c it's depressing thinking that he has been gaslit into sex with someone he finds repulsive.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

The sad thing is, this man could be gay. You’d be surprised how many people are incapable of standing up for themselves or lack the ability to think outside the box. I know there are a lot of people who believe that bisexuality is a myth and would just call a married bisexual man gay even if he has a wife. But surely this woman would have said that her husband is bi because if he is then they’ve had sex and she’d be able to tell that he enjoys having sex with her. Then she’d come to the conclusion that her husband likes woman so obviously he couldn’t be gay, but he likes men as well so he still can’t be straight. A lot of gay men end up in loveless marriages with women because of a combination of various factors: familial pressure, religious pressure, community pressure, financial instability, lack of a spine and ignorance. This should not happen but it does.

[–]DimDroog 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

A lot of gay men end up in loveless marriages with women because of a combination of various factors: familial pressure, religious pressure, community pressure, financial instability, lack of a spine and ignorance. This should not happen but it does.

That is horrible. That would be a form of torture to be honest.

I hope he is bisexual, for his own sake, if that makes sense.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I hope he’s bisexual too. For his sake, for his wife’s sake and for the sake of his children.