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[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 13 insightful - 3 fun13 insightful - 2 fun14 insightful - 3 fun -  (3 children)

She’s...having her... genitals.... removed.... And you thought you can rationally talk her out of it?

I know it’s upsetting to see but you know, I doubt there’s anything you could have said.

[–]7874[S] 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

She actually ended up talking to me for a bit after I posted this, but stopped responding and I think she's sleeping now. She said some of my arguments were convincing, but she "wasn't going to let that stop [her]". She has a lot of doubt and anxiety about the whole thing, but is convinced that it's all "irrational" and this is going to "cure" her crippling dysphoria. I went into detail for several hours about the origins of dysphoria (homophobia) and the history of "transing" homosexuals.

[–]holy_goat 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Does she know about a lot of the censorship of bad results and regrets from those surgeries?

https://kiwifarms.net/threads/srs-and-grs-surgeons-and-associated-horrors.76786/

[–]7874[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

She wasn't even getting phalloplasty. It was "genital nullification" which is complete vaginectomy and removal of all outside organs like the clitoris and labia, leaving her "smooth" (her words, but I'm sure the scars will be horrific) other than her urethra. I told her she would never cum again and there would be numbness or chronic pain from nerve damage but she did not care.