Sadly, that's just the way things are. Spaces like these tend to have people who tilt ever-so-slightly towards a radical feminist POV, where women (including transgender-identified ones) are at the very least given the benefit of the doubt, or just outright treated like misguided victims despite their behavior. The fact that the people they are defending (white, liberal, middle/upper-middle class, female) are the driving force behind the entire transgender movement is irrelevant: "what a poor (virulently homophobic) girl child... but that dude who jerks off to futa hentai and hates women? that's a monster".