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[–]clitoriana 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Imagine this being your FIRST relationship. What a shitty time for both of them. Also, no longer spending time in online groups full of they/thems makes those pronouns sound really weird, impersonal, and anonymous. Like you're not talking to or about anyone in particular. It just sounds so sad and distant when she's supposed to be referring to the closest, most intimate person in her life.