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They think that initial attraction is some fundamentally important thing that gets locked in forever the moment it happens. It's such a ridiculous argument.

You can find all kinds of videos on the internet of men being tricked by other men. Like this one: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qcX5Q84JcAg

Initial attraction is basically meaningless since it's based on incomplete information with your brain filling in the blanks. Our brains do this subconsciously all the time in all aspects of life. Our brains love filling in patterns, sometimes it's right, sometimes it's wrong.