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[–]julesburm1891 26 insightful - 2 fun26 insightful - 1 fun27 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

The guy’s answer reads like a response most would have after being pestered about his or her rejection several times. If a transbian asked me out, I’d say “No” and move on. If I was asked why, I’d probably just say, “I’m not interested.” If bothered again, I’d be quite irritated but say something like, “I don’t like you like that.” If pestered a fourth time, I’d probably snap and come back with, “Because I’m fucking gay and I don’t like dudes at all. I don’t care what pronouns you use, I’ll never been into you.” I assume most people have a similar polite response limit and wouldn’t jump in at the snap level.

[–]NeedMoreCoffee~=[,,_,,]=^_^= 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Yes this. I know from personal experience they dont take no for an answer. There is always bullshit coming no matter how polite and nice you are about it.

[–]wendyokoopa1 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

don't know if my experience is the same but Need is right. Trans love to bait especially when they think they have an easy target. I was a member of a streamer discord channel filled with mixed company. Somehow I managed to raise the eye(Not sexually) of the server's transcot(Trans+Mascot you know how they protect them like the team mascot) and it continued to bait me because I can sadly be reactionary and despite Baiting me and clearly so managed to get me kicked from the server. Yes They have no boundaries and chill because they KNOW they'll be protected and mollycoddled like babies

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

You can always say to him "that’s non of your business" if he asks to know why you are rejecting him. Then again, he can just put words in your mouth.

[–]julesburm1891 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yes. I think most people try to be polite and just hope the situation goes away. For women, we have the added problem of trying to be nice so as to not to set off crazy men. (Straight guys fetishizing lesbians almost always fall into the crazy camp.)