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[–]superbi_scot🇬🇧🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 33 insightful - 8 fun33 insightful - 7 fun34 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

Imagine being reduced to an "even the" on your own day

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 29 insightful - 2 fun29 insightful - 1 fun30 insightful - 2 fun -  (8 children)

"Even the cis lesbians".

Yep, actual lesbians come last on what was supposed to be their day. Imagine it’s your birthday, but your spoilt younger brother is the centre of attention, he gets to decide how the day is celebrated and gets the first slice and the biggest slice of cake, and you have to put him on a pedestal otherwise you are grounded. That sounds like hell.

[–][deleted] 23 insightful - 1 fun23 insightful - 0 fun24 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

On top of the like 15 other days trans people get plus the entirety of Pride month catering to them. It's never enough.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Nothing will ever be enough for them.

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

Sounds like two siblings I knew once upon a time. One had at least two personality disorders. The other struggled to cope with it. Probably still does. (Punch line: the one with the PDs now calls themselves "queer" of course.)

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Jesus. I feel bad for the sane sibling. I hope that he or she is doing better.

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Yeah, I do too. I'd inquire but that would mean risking the abusive sibling pointing that at me as well, if the sane one disclosed the conversation. Which they might do, in one of their moments of weakness while being manipulated emotionally into defending the abusive sibling for no apparent reason. They go back and forth between seeing what a disaster their abusive sibling's behavior is, and honeymoon periods of wanting to believe the abusive one's manipulations that everything is lovey-dovey now. That is never true for very long.

The sane one is being abused, after all. :-( It's to be expected. But I do hope to deliver some validation someday. I would just need a better idea of what I was walking into first.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

The best you can do is just be there for the sane sibling. Oftentimes, people who are being abused think that what is happening to them is normal, or they feel like they deserve it, or they feel like they have nowhere else to you. Just give the sane sibling advice on how to become financially dependent, and build up the sane sibling's self esteem. That’s if you’re still in contact with them, of course. If you haven’t been in contact in ages, then there’s nothing you can do about it.

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

The sane one has been financially independent for close to a decade. Just not emotionally. They are too damned earnest of a person to get what's happening to them (or were; I sincerely hope the fog has lifted at this point—they made plenty of motions of protest and showed a desire to distance themselves on a number of occasions).

We are not in contact.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

If you’re not in contact, then there’s nothing you can do. No point in worrying about it.

[–]GreykittymommaMagical lady 💜 24 insightful - 10 fun24 insightful - 9 fun25 insightful - 10 fun -  (0 children)

I'm bi, so not my day at all. Also, anyone with a dick. Auto disqualification 😜

[–][deleted] 19 insightful - 11 fun19 insightful - 10 fun20 insightful - 11 fun -  (3 children)

I think at this point it'd be easier to ask for a list of people who don't qualify as lesbians, because I'm pretty sure they've forced lesbian to include every single person on the planet.

[–]Mermer 14 insightful - 3 fun14 insightful - 2 fun15 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

Except the real lesbians don't qualify as lesbians

[–][deleted] 17 insightful - 3 fun17 insightful - 2 fun18 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah, we're just vagina fetishists.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 13 insightful - 5 fun13 insightful - 4 fun14 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

"You’re just females who like to have sex with females"

[–]spanishprofanity 18 insightful - 8 fun18 insightful - 7 fun19 insightful - 8 fun -  (4 children)

Lol this estrogenated monstrosity was getting ratio'd pretty hard. The party started when the TRA's platform manipulating account showed up.

[–][deleted] 23 insightful - 6 fun23 insightful - 5 fun24 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

Why do they always lie? "It's because she's trans!" No, it's because he's posting homophobic shit.

[–]censorshipment 13 insightful - 10 fun13 insightful - 9 fun14 insightful - 10 fun -  (1 child)

GC Dogpile Alert??? 🤣🤣🤣

[–]spanishprofanity 14 insightful - 3 fun14 insightful - 2 fun15 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Ya they need an account to alert them of the meanies dogpiling on the Ts because the Ts keep posting stupid shit on Twitter. It's like damage control.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They not only dogpile, but dox, people they don’t like. They’re getting their just desserts.

[–]tu_jode_mucho 16 insightful - 12 fun16 insightful - 11 fun17 insightful - 12 fun -  (1 child)

Happy Hispanic Heritage Month to the Irish, Mongolians, Dothraki, Masai Warriors, Cannibals of Sentinel Island and even the Mexicans!

[–]Rag3 9 insightful - 7 fun9 insightful - 6 fun10 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

Not the Dothraki 🤣

[–]julesburm1891 17 insightful - 3 fun17 insightful - 2 fun18 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

The bi pride necklace is interesting. Boy, we all know you’re straight. Stop playing.

[–]babystud 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

so to everyone but actual lesbians?

[–]SilverWolf 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Hey, they did include actual lesbians... last in their list

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 15 insightful - 3 fun15 insightful - 2 fun16 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Isn't that every day? Narcissists are very inclusive of themselves, everywhere, all the time.

[–]loveSloaneSuperDuperBi 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

What does “lesbian” mean to this person if they’ve also singled out “transbians” and “cis lesbians”?

[–]censorshipment 13 insightful - 5 fun13 insightful - 4 fun14 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

I think the new lesbian definition is "non-men attracted to non-men" so nonbinary, genderfluid, wtfever folks can identify as lesbians when they are in girl/woman mode. 🥴