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[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 28 insightful - 1 fun28 insightful - 0 fun29 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

I do care about personalities and hobbies. But I also care about genitals as well. Let’s not be light switch brains about it.

[–]SilverWolf 31 insightful - 3 fun31 insightful - 2 fun32 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

It's always like this, isn't it? "oh you want your partner to have a dick? you must not care about literally anything else then," as if being a man and having a personality are mutually exclusive.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 28 insightful - 1 fun28 insightful - 0 fun29 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

A lot of these people have black or white thinking. They’re perpetual children. Some of them literally are children, being teenagers.

[–]ArthnoldManacatsaman🇬🇧🌳🟦 13 insightful - 6 fun13 insightful - 5 fun14 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

Some of the women on Ovarit would be with you on that point.

[–]JulienMayfair 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Their strategy is always to focus on something ridiculously specific without acknowledging that attraction is holistic. It's the whole package. And if I like dick, it's not that dick is somehow hard to find.

[–]Three_oneFourWanted for thought crimes in countless ideologies 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

That's the black and white fallacy for you. You're either with them or against them, you can either care about genitals or anything else. There is no room for compromise, there is no room for complexity or nuance or reality. Just a child's view of the world, oversimplified and incorrect.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

These people have the maturity of toddlers.

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Exactly. That's about the emotional development stage at which people with Cluster B personality disorders get stuck.