Targeting / HarassmentChoosing genitals over personality or hobbies?! You crazy bastards!

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[–]Fusrodamus 31 insightful - 13 fun31 insightful - 12 fun32 insightful - 13 fun -  (1 child)

Yes, Steven, I am a functionally damaged person. Very, very damaged. So damaged that people like you would do well to stay very, very far away from people like me. For your own safety.

In fact, we should probably have spaces that are entirely separate. That way genital-obsessed freaks like me would only be a threat to other genital-obsessed freaks and enlightened people like you would be safe.

Doesn't that sound great?

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 17 insightful - 2 fun17 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

They think we need their "help".

[–]julesburm1891 30 insightful - 3 fun30 insightful - 2 fun31 insightful - 3 fun -  (3 children)

These people have never heard of friendship. You know, that thing when you have no interest in someone’s junk but you like them as a person and enjoy his or her company?

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 26 insightful - 7 fun26 insightful - 6 fun27 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

These people tend not to have friends, I presume.

[–][deleted] 21 insightful - 8 fun21 insightful - 7 fun22 insightful - 8 fun -  (1 child)

You think people this insufferable have friends?

[–]julesburm1891 15 insightful - 5 fun15 insightful - 4 fun16 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

Touché.

[–][deleted] 28 insightful - 1 fun28 insightful - 0 fun29 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Literally advocating for conversion therapy.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 28 insightful - 1 fun28 insightful - 0 fun29 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

I do care about personalities and hobbies. But I also care about genitals as well. Let’s not be light switch brains about it.

[–]SilverWolf 31 insightful - 3 fun31 insightful - 2 fun32 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

It's always like this, isn't it? "oh you want your partner to have a dick? you must not care about literally anything else then," as if being a man and having a personality are mutually exclusive.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 28 insightful - 1 fun28 insightful - 0 fun29 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

A lot of these people have black or white thinking. They’re perpetual children. Some of them literally are children, being teenagers.

[–]ArthnoldManacatsaman🇬🇧🌳🟦 13 insightful - 6 fun13 insightful - 5 fun14 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

Some of the women on Ovarit would be with you on that point.

[–]JulienMayfair 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Their strategy is always to focus on something ridiculously specific without acknowledging that attraction is holistic. It's the whole package. And if I like dick, it's not that dick is somehow hard to find.

[–]Three_oneFourWanted for thought crimes in countless ideologies 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

That's the black and white fallacy for you. You're either with them or against them, you can either care about genitals or anything else. There is no room for compromise, there is no room for complexity or nuance or reality. Just a child's view of the world, oversimplified and incorrect.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

These people have the maturity of toddlers.

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Exactly. That's about the emotional development stage at which people with Cluster B personality disorders get stuck.

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 19 insightful - 2 fun19 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

I don't get being attracted to hobbies, like yeah a nerdy girl is sexy, but overall, who cares? Personality and compatibility is what matters, not hobbies, I'm not going to fuck the hobbies, I'm going to fuck a pussy. Also my ideal relationship looks likes more like a friendship with great benefit, meaning maintaining individuality and personal spaces, not certainly doing everything together.

[–][deleted] 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Personally it's important to chemistry. I don't think you should share everything with the person in question either as it's good to have things that both you can see similarity and difference in. Of course there are people that are nothing alike and fall in love but down to me there needs to be something we can be passionate about together.

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 16 insightful - 15 fun16 insightful - 14 fun17 insightful - 15 fun -  (0 children)

there needs to be something we can be passionate about together.

Thats called sex

[–]soundsituationI myself was once a gay 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Common interests have nothing to do with compatibility in my experience. For me it's all about personality and chemistry.

[–]soundsituationI myself was once a gay 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

and even their face which you're going to see FAR more of during a relationship

They always do this. Faces are also male or female, as are all other body parts. They look and feel very different.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Faces, genitals, pelvises, shoulders, torsos… it goes on.

Not to mention that males and females have different ways of burping, coughing, vomiting and sneezing. I noticed this growing up with how loud and forceful my dad comes across when he sneezes, whereas my mam has a simple sneeze. My sneezes have been louder and more forceful since I passed through puberty.

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Have to disagree about burping and sneezing. Some of my female friends would surprise you. And I dated a man once who had the most adorable, diminutive sneeze I've ever heard. (He did not look in any way diminutive or delicate.)

[–]MilkTea 12 insightful - 8 fun12 insightful - 7 fun13 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

Bold assumption and very wrong. Also when I have, I've been attracted to things that made us good partners for a long time, what their vaginas looked like wasn't all that important because... its a vagina. Its still gonna function the same. Who they are is more important

No mention of ladydique, Steven?

[–][deleted] 14 insightful - 2 fun14 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Imagine if there was no such thing as genital preferences and they’re rejected based on their personality or looks.

“I enjoyed our first date but we’re not compatible. I have zero issues with what’s between your legs, but you have this very obnoxious personality and you kinda talk weirdly and you’re not as attractive as your dating app photos in fact you’re quite hideous and most importantly learn to breathe through your nose and not your mouth”

It’s way more than genitals when it comes to dating.

Also, on another note I have some hobbies but I choose not to engage with other people who have that same hobby and I am sure that there are other people like that too.

[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 9 insightful - 10 fun9 insightful - 9 fun10 insightful - 10 fun -  (0 children)

what if your hobby is genitals?

[–]filbs111 7 insightful - 10 fun7 insightful - 9 fun8 insightful - 10 fun -  (0 children)

Which hobbies do it for you? A bit of knitting? Phwoar! Collecting stamps. Coomtastic!

[–]Three_oneFourWanted for thought crimes in countless ideologies 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

If you like someone's hobbies, interests, etc. and not their genitals, that's what's called being in a platonic relationship with them. You don't need to bang everyone just to not be an ass to them. But if you're entering a relationship that is potentially sexual, then you really do need to be sexually compatible. And the only time I've ever prioritized someone's junk over the other aspects of them is for a hookup or one night stand, where I actually am seeing a lot more of their genitals than their hobbies, interests, or anything else about them.

[–]dilsencySame-sex community 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I am only interested in the category of male people. That's the baseline. Within that category, I am only interested in people with decent personalities that I have chemistry with.

[–]SickOfThisShit 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This is so stupid like they don't understand what the difference between a friend and a partner is. If I'm having sex with the person what's between their legs is pretty fucking important. Also as if that's the only thing that matters. News flash I can care about more than one thing.

[–]MarkJeffersonTight defenses and we draw the line 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

If your genitals are not right, then the face won't be right either. Not to mention the rest of your body. It also can affect personality, interests, and hobbies.

Also, many of the people most in need of therapy are those not getting it right now because providing it for them is deemed "trans conversion therapy" and outlawed.

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 7 insightful - 4 fun7 insightful - 3 fun8 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Endless Stream of Sour Grapes Diatribes, Chapter 1,305,233,217,433,442.2361273234972354.

[–]TiredTrendersSuper-gay 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I like how this micromanager obsessed with bullying others into sleeping with sexes they don't want to, is telling others that they're broken people who need therapy. He should really learn how to take his own advice for a change.

[–]Criticallacitirc 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

How do these people watch porn ? Do porn companies provide a list of hobbies & interests of each performer that I'm not aware of ? Otherwise how are they being aroused? 🤔