homonormativity is supposed to be a naughty word. It implies oppression through power. Heteronormativity is an actual thing. It's about relationship dynamics and brainwashing, pushing people into believing certain things about themselves that just arent true and dont apply to you if you're not a hetero male or hetero female.

Here's how heteronormativity would work: "i'm an effeminate gay male. let me apply some heteronormative beliefs to this: i obviously cant be a feminine male. And on top of that, i obviously cant be a male and attracted to other males. Let me somehow take my incompatible identity and somehow force it through heteronormative ideas: i got it! i'm not an effeminate gay male; i'm a straight woman trapped inside a man's body. Guess i better chop my dick off and go chase straight men!"

Now, can you guess who's pushing for heteronormativity? These straight trans people and their flawed ideas about gender. What they want to do is create words to examine, explore and put gays and lesbians under the microscope to harass and "study" them to show everyone how flawed their way of thinking is. Why? Because why cant a lesbian accept a straight man in a wig who "identifies" as a lesbian? Why cant a gay man have sex with a woman with chopped off tits? They're oppressing us and pushing these evil, political and powerful social structures! Let's call it "homonormativity".

They look down on us as a dumpster that accepts all the world's trash like them and we're supposed to be a dumping ground for every idiot who's fucked up. When they use words like "homonormativity", theyre basically implying some nefarious, powerful homosexual cabal is afoot and anyone who says theyre just a homosexual is an agent of this nefarious, evil, sinister force that our culture should stigmatize to protect its victims. And who are its victims? The people who want to colonize us.