DiscussionWhy do LGB Alliance and LGN keep giving a platform to Julie Bindel, when she repeatedly makes homophobic and biphobic claims?

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[–]strictly 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I think that many straight "political lesbians" might act in this way

I think straight political lesbians are usually women who choose to be celibate and think the word lesbian should refer to being a feminist instead of homosexual woman.

Humans who fervently believe in an ideology have done far stranger things.

I think the more painful something is the less likely a person would be willing to do it especially long-term and without outside pressure. I think there exist more bisexual women in the world than straight women who are willing to suffer in same-sex relationships. Also, the reason I think Julia Bindel is a political lesbian and can be attracted to men is because Julia Bindel says she is a political lesbian and can be attracted to men. She also says sex with women is hot in the article where she criticize bisexual women for not going febfem, and she has talked about having been bullied as a teenager for having an obvious crush on a female friend. I think it would be selective of me to only trust the part where she says she is a political lesbian but not the part of being attracted to women, especially as there is no contradiction between being attracted to women and refraining to be with men for political reasons, febfems exist, and her actions make more sense in my opinion if we take her word for it.

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I think there exist more bisexual women in the world than straight women who are willing to suffer in same-sex relationships.

I am not convinced one way or another; they are both small groups but I think there are more straight women like that than you might think. It's a little tangential but I actually just posted about an example of a straight woman who was in a same-sex relationship due to gender identity ideology confusing her (the "some people claim that straight women never do this" comment was not in reference to you, to be clear!).

But, I would be curious to see actual numbers on these groups. This is all speculation though, I think it'd be hard to obtain those numbers.

She also says sex with women is hot in the article where she criticize bisexual women for not going febfem

Yeah, but she could just be lying, since she lies about the nature of sexual orientation. Generally, I think it's really important to believe people when they tell you something about their sexual orientation, but we're talking about somebody who is trying to hide/erase homosexuality and who believes that sexual orientation is a choice-- when it is not.

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especially as there is no contradiction between being attracted to women and refraining to be with men for political reasons, febfems exist, and her actions make more sense in my opinion if we take her word for it.

That's true, she still could be febfem. But we still would not be "taking her word for it" because she claims she is lesbian, lol, not bisexual. This person has proved time and time again over a period of years that she is fine with spreading misinformation, regarding claims that have been debunked, so I think it's reasonable to question some of her other claims that are less easily debunk-able, as well.

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I would be curious to see actual numbers on these groups

Between 7-10% of women say they are mostly heterosexual so the total number of bisexual women isn’t super tiny in my opinion if we count the whole range of bisexual women, and a mostly heterosexual bisexual woman would still be able to get something out of a same-sex relationship. We might have different preconceptions of how many strictly straight women there are who would be willing to be in same-sex relationships though, which is fair.

Yeah, but she could just be lying, since she lies about the nature of sexual orientation.

I think there is difference between intentionally saying something you know is false and being wrong (due to biases or not). I think Julie Bindel is wrong about the nature of sexual orientation, and if she is bisexual it would make sense that she is wrong if she is generalizing from one example (herself) and thinks everyone is capable to be attracted to both sexes because she is. In her arguments that is what her assumption seems to be, that everyone is bi but can choose to be behaviorally homosexual.

she claims she is lesbian, lol, not bisexual.

She uses lesbian as synonym to political lesbian, someone who is attracted to women and can be attracted to men but chooses to be behaviorally homosexual (as she has criticized women who have same-sex relationships just to make a point it seems like she thinks attraction to women is important too), that is what we call febfem. That is not the same thing as claiming to be a female person who only has the capacity to be attracted to the same sex, she specifically claims that isn't the case for her. So translated to our words she is claiming to be female exclusive bisexual and not a lesbian but she wants lesbian to be the word for febfem (as she doesn't think homosexuality exists).