Where? On reddit actual lesbians they're almot always super submissive sexually. There are some who call themselves top, and even tomboys, basically normal het men, but they're not the regular trans. The is vast correlation between being a dude wanting to be a woman at any cost, and being extremely submissive and craving being treated sexually like a normal woman. They usually see being dominant or penetrating as invalidating their femininity

They can, they just don't release sperm or release it in a far less dense clearer form. Are you conflicted about wanting to fuck them? If I could being attracted to dick, I would probably try. They tend to have some traits that I like, like being introverted, nerdy and putting effort in being femininity. But I can't like males attributes and crave female ones.