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[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

That being said I will never marry someone wearing a suit lol

Yeah, that's pretty much how I feel as well. I'm open to make out and stuff if there's chemistry and she's sweet even if she isn't exactly my "type"/more masculine than I wished. But I have my serious doubts whether I'd be able actually want something serious out of it. Last time I tried to date a butch women, I had literally urges to cheat on her constantly with more feminine women. I felt claustrophobic with so much masculinity. Obviously, I decided to end it right away for the sake of both of us. Interestingly enough, she had told me that I was exactly her type. Life is so damn bs, isn't it?

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Mmm, being breathless in a relationship and feel like you need to cheat it is really toxic. I have no personal experience with you with a butch woman, but it seems like you talking about a man with a pussy lol Yeah, you shouldn't date someone whose characteristics you can't tolerate and like, that's not fair to the other person either, as it horrible to stay in a relationship with someone not liking you.

It's hard to find mutual liking and compatibility. And mutual physical liking isn't nearly enough. You need a lot more, in character compatibility or values and desires to make it work. Dating is hard and with a small dating base is quite depressing.