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[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I would suggest you find some kind of therapy, such as a psychologist. I would also suggest you steer clear of any who specialise in LGBTQ people; they're not going to be any good for you. Yes, it's fine to have a good cry about what you're missing, but the best thing to do is to try and figure out how to deal with your issues, despite how impossible or difficult it may seem. Feeling depressed every time your girl friends mention men shouldn't be something you should accept for granted. Look into cognitive behaviour therapy and see if there are any tactics that will help you.

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡[S] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Thank you so much :' I was actually thinking about going to a psychologist because I feel like I really need some (professional) help... This week already I'll meet the psychologist. Big hugs

[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I wish you the best of luck!!! It's not an easy position to be in and it'll be tough for a while, but I'm sure you'll get through xo