The privilege cannot be denied. It isn't so dramatic, I'm blessed with being seriosuly introverted, so being alone isn't a bad thing to me as for an extrovert, it doesn't make me miserable and desperate. I just sometimes think myself when my parents are dead me possibly alone, and undertsand I need to totally get used to rely to myself only. Homosexuality makes probability of staying alone in life or just for longer time high. It's the way of things. I just don't get people who see lesbianism as such cool thing, while is just something making life more complicated. You even have to think where to live based on potential bigness of dating poll. There is nothing super easy, even in this time and age where things are easier than ever, being a small minority, will always be harder.