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[–]Neo_Shadow_LurkerPronouns: I/Don't/Care 15 insightful - 4 fun15 insightful - 3 fun16 insightful - 4 fun -  (5 children)

I mean, I don't think her boyfriend's a Kinsey-6, maybe a 5, but still: What's with the surprised Pickachu face? Isn't this an FMT's dream?

Or maybe he's just an idiot who gaslighted himself into believing that this relationship would work.

What did he achieved with this? A shit sex life and an unsatisfied partner? lol

[–]reluctant_commenter 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Was about to say this. Seriously, there is so much pressure among people in my generation to seem "open-minded" and say that you are open to and accepting of literally anything in sex. I've witnessed many of my peers, IRL, shame each other if someone implies that they have preferences deemed "too vanilla." We don't know this guy's sexual orientation, he well could be gay.

Hope he is doing okay and finds a way out of this toxic relationship.

[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

they seem way to open to things they know deep down they wont like. like dating a transman. Its all because they believe in a ll the new definitions of sexuality.

[–]DimDroog 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I hope he's at least bi.

It's sad to think of a gay or lesbian person forcing themselves to like something. JHC, this is triggering.

The creep I lost my virginity to was disgusting, and I had to gaslight myself into thinking he wasn't

I was 16, he was 25!!

This is exactly why I flip out when I see older folks preying on teens.

It enrages me.

I should have waited till I was 21, when I met a really nice man my age.

He was a lovely person.

I'm sad for every person that has been gaslight into sex.

It's disgusting.

[–]reluctant_commenter 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

It's sad to think of a gay or lesbian person forcing themselves to like something. JHC, this is triggering.

Yeah... I hear you. It is sad. I actually did something similar when I was younger, forced myself to date/have sex with a guy (I am a lesbian woman) because my family hates homosexuality. I thought I just wasn't trying hard enough to be straight. Being on this sub and talking with other LGB people has actually helped me a lot in coming to realize how normal my feelings are.

It IS disgusting. I'm so sorry that happened to you. <3 Hoping your life is much more peaceful these days.

[–]DimDroog 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It is sad. I actually did something similar when I was younger, forced myself to date/have sex with a guy (I am a lesbian woman) because my family hates homosexuality. I thought I just wasn't trying hard enough to be straight.

Terrible, just awful.

I hope you too are doing better!