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[–]DimDroog 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I hope he's at least bi.

It's sad to think of a gay or lesbian person forcing themselves to like something. JHC, this is triggering.

The creep I lost my virginity to was disgusting, and I had to gaslight myself into thinking he wasn't

I was 16, he was 25!!

This is exactly why I flip out when I see older folks preying on teens.

It enrages me.

I should have waited till I was 21, when I met a really nice man my age.

He was a lovely person.

I'm sad for every person that has been gaslight into sex.

It's disgusting.

[–]reluctant_commenter 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

It's sad to think of a gay or lesbian person forcing themselves to like something. JHC, this is triggering.

Yeah... I hear you. It is sad. I actually did something similar when I was younger, forced myself to date/have sex with a guy (I am a lesbian woman) because my family hates homosexuality. I thought I just wasn't trying hard enough to be straight. Being on this sub and talking with other LGB people has actually helped me a lot in coming to realize how normal my feelings are.

It IS disgusting. I'm so sorry that happened to you. <3 Hoping your life is much more peaceful these days.

[–]DimDroog 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It is sad. I actually did something similar when I was younger, forced myself to date/have sex with a guy (I am a lesbian woman) because my family hates homosexuality. I thought I just wasn't trying hard enough to be straight.

Terrible, just awful.

I hope you too are doing better!