They know I’m gay from day one. I didn’t put this together until recently but my straight male friends are all Latin and they are super gay acting themselves. So I guess explicit. I had a friend joke about how I put a whole sausage in my mouth or how me and my man have sex. I mean it’s dumb stuff. I tell them the same. I feel pretty normal in the group. I believe it is largely cultural as that is how it’s always been.