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[–]julesburm1891 23 insightful - 3 fun23 insightful - 2 fun24 insightful - 3 fun -  (3 children)

Tbh, I met my fiancée on tinder and just lucked out. Most of the women I met there were at least tethered to reality. (The downside was sifting through a bunch of straight couples that wanted a three-some.)

However, I would not recommend the HER app to someone I hated. At least a third of the “women” there were dudes. Every woman I went on a date with was either a huge TRA or crazy in some other way (e.g. crystals help my chronic pain).

It’s too bad there’s not a dating platform for people like us (or a filter on an already existing platform, at least). I mean, people who only want to date farmers have a dating site. Why can’t we?

[–]usehername 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Lol, I chatted with a woman on HER for about two days and she told me she needed to stay with me for a night because she was being kicked out of her apartment for having too many people in it. I let her stay for a night, but thankfully she ended up finding a place to stay with a family member the next day. We never spoke again. Very weird experience. And yeah, a lot of dudes with the absolute raunchiest pictures. Old, dirty, wrinkly men in lingerie, sometimes with their dicks out.

Every woman I went on a date with was either a huge TRA or crazy in some other way

I feel like that's just the majority of women my age. Some people just need a religion.

I mean, people who only want to date farmers have a dating site. Why can’t we?

Lmfao right?

edit (I'd also like to add): I had better luck finding women on Tinder. HER was not very popular in my city. I actually ended up going through every single profile x_x

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 9 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

She slept at your home and never spoke to you again? That's weird. Did she give you pussy, at least?

[–]usehername 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

No lol. I think she may have just been grifting.