No you arent crazy. Its a cult and sadly women are more susceptible to it than men, instead of praising young women for their individuality the queerdos just encourage collective thinking. Its just like a religious cult, except instead of God there is gender woowoo. I'm sorry you are going through this, stand your ground. I know its a very challenging time for lesbians but stand your ground and believe in yourself. Don't give in to homophobic ideology wrapped up in a pretty rainbow package.

Also, an advice from an older homosexual (albeit a male one), believing in genderism will not give you a gf. Trust me. The woker you go up the woke hierarchy the more fucked up it becomes relationship wise. Polyamory and excessive sexual activity is truly messing up the gays. I know you are young and these feelings are normal, we all want a special someone but never compromise your own ideals to have a gf. You are worth more than this gender bs, remember that. These people are also not happy themselves, its just like a crabs in a bucket situation, they want to pull you in to join in their misery. Don't fret about it. Trust when you become an old gay like me (that is turn 30) you'll automatically realize that relationships/friendships for the sake of relationships/friendships don't matter at all. I hope you have a good day.