DiscussionBi men in gay spaces – examples of constant homophobia, misinformation and undermining our definitions

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[–]thump 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Thank you! There are some bisexuals who really show their true confusion when this topic is brought up. All of them are proving OP's point. There are waaaaaay fewer homos than bi's, how the heck can it be as a pervasive problem of us, as opposed to straights, claiming bi?? Now I'm starting to understand those lesbians who have such a strong stance on the whole "comphet" or "figuring things out" excuses.

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And rest assured that when actual straight people (not just bisexuals people like to 'accuse' of being straight) call themselves bi I call them on it. However it does little good to point that out on a forum of primarily non straight people, except for ranting and venting purposes. I won't get into which is more or less pervasive as far as LGB is concerned, because that gets into which is more or less damaging, which gets into who has more or less right to complain, and I'd rather not.

[–]thump 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I see your side of it, thanks for elucidating it with the fake bi's narrative. I thought about that yesterday; how a straight woman could claim she's "bi" because she's into transwomen and regular men. I was hesitant to say anything about it, because I didn't want to further derail discussion, but now I see, as usual, that straight TRA's contribute too much to brush it aside.