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[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 19 insightful - 2 fun19 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

It’s too late for him, unfortunately. This cannot be undone. And it will be all in vain, because no straight man is ever going to be willing to go on a date with him, and now that he’s transitioned, no gay man wants to date him either. He only has a proportion of the bisexual male population in his dating pool.

[–]IridescentAnacondastrictly dickly 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

This is a really important message and almost obvious quantitatively speaking. When gay men are deciding whether or not to transition, do they not stop and consider this issue, or are they lost in the dream of bagging a straight man (under the assumption that gay men are subpar)?

The most feminine gay man still has a decent "market" among other gay men, all other things being equal. But once you develop breasts and chop off the D, all of that market disappears. At the same time, no truly straight man is going to consider dating a transwoman long term (though f_ck & ch_ck is a possibility among some).

From a game theory perspective, this is a vastly inferior strategy. It only makes sense in the depths of a dreamworld fantasy.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 13 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Nah, straight men won’t even hookup with with a trans woman. Straight men really do not want penis, and they are not afraid to vocalise their objection to having sex with trans women. They want natural vaginas. And they will call any man who willingly sleeps with a trans woman gay or bisexual. So these gay men who want to become women don’t stand a chance.

I had an encounter on Reddit where a trans woman claimed that trans women are better off than gay men, and that "straight men are better than gay men". I flat out told him that straight men don’t want penises at all, and that all those "straight men" he’s banged were bisexual. He didn’t respond. I hope he’s doing okay and has found himself a nice, bisexual boyfriend.