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[–]GreykittymommaMagical lady 💜 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Yes I get this all the time. I come out to someone then they argue with me about it. Heaven forbid I have been in a longterm relationship with a man. Forget that I find women more attractive (usually). Add in being from conservative area and religious upbringing and then wonder why I don't tell most people.

When did my sexuality suddenly become everyone's business?

[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

The argument you could try is that while you're more attracted to women, you're statistically more likely to find a heterosexual/bisexual male partner than a bisexual female/lesbian partner. But don't waste your breath on them. They don't deserve it.

[–]reluctant_commenter 13 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Right? I'm always amazed by how people don't stop and think about how many more available opposite-sex/opposite-sex-attracted potential partners there are than LGB potential partners! Time for me to grumble about basic math education...