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I'm going to leave this up, but let me explain.

This wasn't an LGB spa/bath, and this clip and the issue isn't relevant to our sub. It's adjacent to what we're doing here, but it's not our cause. This is more appropriate for a sub like s/GenderCritical, it has already been shared there a few times, and I would encourage users to go share their support there.

This was a Korean spa with sex-exclusive spaces (which allow nudity) as well as co-ed (which do not). Unfortunately, the degenerate perv is safe under California discrimination laws, as "gender identity" is a protected class here. The business and it's employees could not do anything unless the man violated other laws, and this video isn't evidence of whether he did or didn't.

The woman being recorded tried to imply that the white knight (no pun intended) was gay as a rebuttal to him saying he wouldn't care if nude women were in the men's space. So whether or not we agree with her stance on sex-segregated spaces, we also have to acknowledge she used homophobia as a weapon.

Now THAT is a cause we need to address.

[–]NeedMoreCoffee~=[,,_,,]=^_^= 24 insightful - 1 fun24 insightful - 0 fun25 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I didn't hear any homophobia. I just heard her make the correct argument that if he didn't like women he might not be so quick to say he would not have any problems with naked women in his lockerroom.

If you heard homophobia you are going to have to explain that one to me

[–]JulienMayfair 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

It's also the case that there's simply an asymmetry between having a man exposing himself in the women's room and the reverse since, statistically, men represent a much greater threat to women and are far likelier to be exposing themselves for the purpose of deriving a perverse sexual thrill from it.

Admittedly, I was raised in the South where chivalry is still a thing.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It’s not chivalry to acknowledge that a man is more dangerous inside a female changing room than a woman is inside a male changing room. Men are more physically threatening, and a man is more likely to fuck you up than a woman. Now, a woman can still be a threat to the mean inside in a male changing room, especially if she’s physically strong or is carrying a weapon, and especially if she has a camera, but based on probability and the average strengths of both sexes, women are more vulnerable.