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[–][deleted] 36 insightful - 5 fun36 insightful - 4 fun37 insightful - 5 fun -  (6 children)

Agender panromantic demi femme here, married to a femme cis bi demi guy

That's a lot of words for straight.

I'm also not sure what these people think femme means, but men and straight woman can't be femme.

[–][deleted] 24 insightful - 3 fun24 insightful - 2 fun25 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

I THINK ... it might be a bisexual girly-girl who like bisexual femboys.

Maybe. I'm trying to interpret it through middle-school/high-school speak, and that's the only way it makes sense to me.

[–][deleted] 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Just more of their ongoing efforts to erase everything related to lesbians.

[–]ArthnoldManacatsaman🇬🇧🌳🟦 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I thought it just meant '(stereotypically) feminine'. What does it mean?

[–][deleted] 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

It's a lesbian who is feminine, it's the counterpart to butch.

[–]ArthnoldManacatsaman🇬🇧🌳🟦 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I see, I didn't realise it was specific to lesbians. Thank you

[–]PatsyStoneMaverique 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Previous to the last few years, I always thought it was a very specific lesbian dating thing. Femmes play up their femininity and often seek out butches.