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    [–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    I once dated a person with a certain physical attribute I wasn't a huge fan of (what it was is immaterial), but who also had a lot going for them in other ways. Alas, they turned out to also have a deep pathological narcissism problem. Eventually they hated me for accepting and loving them including that particular physical attribute (something they hated about themselves), i.e. seeing reality. Can't win. Don't try. Compassion from a safe distance is my policy now.