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[–][deleted] 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (11 children)

I hear that there are more men than women in China.

Yeah, there are, and it is seems like it's demoralizing the men. Also China isn't as gay-friendly as the West, apparently the CCP is suspicious of any political organizing.

[–]VioletRemiCat, homosexual one 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Well, it is their own failure. They were allowing only 1 kid per family, and having boy had a ton of benefits, while having a girl was mostly troublesome. In last 5-10 years (I don't remember exact number) there were 20 million illegal abortions or murdered female toddlers to "try once more until got a boy". They have like 100 million more men than women now.

[–]ukrdude10 9 insightful - 6 fun9 insightful - 5 fun10 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

Fake news, there is no such thing as biological sex, you literally can't tell the child's gender until they start browsing Tumblr and pick their own identity

-TRA logic.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (8 children)

Are there places in China where it’s okay to be gay? But yeah, the sex imbalance in China is definitely a grave concern. Not to mention the fact that a lot of Chinese women marry men from western countries.

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 9 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 2 fun -  (7 children)

China isn't really homophobic in the way we see it. Same sex activity isn't such a big taboo because they got not christian or muslim brainwashing. Most hate toward homosexualty comes from religion. They might not want to support gays too openly because they don't support their plans of increasing birth rates, that's it.

[–][deleted] 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Well if gay people in China want rights, then who next? It's still an authoritarian government.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

I hear that there is contempt for LGBT ideology in China, something that I and a lot of people on this sub share as well. But it’s good that homosexuality is tolerated. But there is pressure for gay men in China to marry women so that their parents can have grandchildren.

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Yeah, because males pass their surname so they have the pressure of reproduce, even if they are gay. Especially for being only child. That's not about hating homosexuality, but just wanting to pass the name. Do you have some asian fantasy too, Redeyed? ;D

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I don’t fantasise about Asian men as much as I do about white men, but there are some Asian men that are attractive. But I do like Asian cultures. Asian men in general tend to be hard working, direct, honourable and mentally strong. Stereotypes, I know, but still. They have a strong appreciation for community and family. Asian men with very short hair or who are bald are handsome - those with medium hair or Asian men who look like KPop or JPop idols don’t do it for me very much. Older Asian men tend to be quite handsome. I do tend to prefer white men because that’s who I’m familiar with, but I can definitely see myself dating an East Asian man.

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

It's totally the same for me. I do prefer white women and definitely prefer the mediterranean type among all, but that's just because it's familiar. I think is natural to be more into what with already know . Asian girls are cute though and they got the features I'm more into. You like bald men, while usually women hate them :D

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I agree with liking what’s familiar. Ireland is >90% white, with >85% of the population being Irish and the rest being mostly Eastern European. Most of our immigrants come from Eastern Europe, mostly Poland, Romania and the Baltic states. We do have some people from Asia (mostly Chinese, Indian, Pakistani, Thai and Turkish), South America (almost all of them from Brazil) and Africa (mostly Nigerian and Zambian), but altogether they’re around 5% of the population. Most of my interactions with Asians happened in restaurants and takeaway shops, which is cliche, but Irish people like Asian food and Asian immigrants take advantage of it.

I love bald men. They’re my preference. Although men with short hair are also hot, especially if they’re blond. The shorter the better. I don’t know why I like bald men. However, bald men who are confident and well dressed easily get my attention. Especially a bald man in a suit or a uniform. Regarding Asian women, I’m not into women, but I can appreciate that Asian women are beautiful. I suppose I would be very much into them if I was bisexual or straight.

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Here is Sicily too we're almost all white. The darker type of white, we got arabics genes because of past arabic dominations and we're close to Africa. The only africans I ever met were street sellers and as kids I was scared of black men because they were just unusual and their darkness did scare me. Asian women are cute, well I simply adore super dark eyes, the almond shape is cool too and the shorter bodytype. It's all my preferance. I do get why lots of men like asian girls. Women don't like asian men that much, being shorter and being known for small dicks doesn't make women interested I guess lol

Bald in uniform is masculine as fuck. I guess you like ultra-masculine type.