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[–]Crunchycrunch 9 insightful - 3 fun9 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

Completely relate, also ace. I had Hormones checked numerous times and obsessively researched possible explanations. Turns out I'm just asexual and that's OK

[–]reluctant_commenter 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Sorry you have to deal with that bullshit as well, and I'm glad you're ok with the conclusion you found :) it's a weird feeling to try and prove that something does not exist (attraction, in this case). It's like, at what point do you give up and conclude it doesn't exist? And then there's all kinds of misinformation about minority sexualities.

[–]Crunchycrunch 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Completely this. It's like trying to prove God doesn't exist, you can't prove a negative. For over a decade I really believed someday I'd meet someone and everything would change. I even thought I must be gay because everyone assumed I was since I never showed any interest in boys, just that I had internalised homophobia. It was a ride to get here but I accept myself now.