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[–]MatthewofHouseGraySuper straight ally :) 51 insightful - 1 fun51 insightful - 0 fun52 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

"just a heads up that the owner of r/lgbt, high up mod of r/trans, r/actuallesbians and 76 other subreddits."

That would explain why actualesbians and lgbt is nothing but the transgender spam. On a side note, I find it disturbing that one of the mods for a sexuality based sub which traditionally involves females being sexual attracted to each other is being moderated by a male. As a male myself I wouldn't want a woman to be enforcing rules in a sub which is geared towards males due to females being unable to relate with us. It's just plan out creepy that a male is enforcing rules for a lesbian based sub.

[–][deleted] 44 insightful - 1 fun44 insightful - 0 fun45 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's even worse because a lot of young lesbians go there asking for advice and are basically told if they aren't open to dating males they are evil.

And there's a lot of easy pitfalls for them too considering pretty common lesbian experiences are considered transphobic now so they might accidentally mention one of them. Like being grossed out by dicks and having straight guys try to tell them they should like dick.

[–]ZveroboyAlinaclownfish is a clown or a fish? || Febfem 29 insightful - 1 fun29 insightful - 0 fun30 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I would be surprised if /r/ActualLesbians have at least one active female mod. That place is almost completely full of transwomen, straight men and bisexual women, and very few lesbians who afraid to speak up.

[–]dreamgermsbisexual nightmare 25 insightful - 2 fun25 insightful - 1 fun26 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

I’m pretty sure a vast majority of the mods of LGBT subreddits are trans and maintain a strong pro-trans, anti-gender critical attitude in them all. Hence communities for lesbians where some of the most upvoted posts are jokes about sucking dick. It’s fucking gross in so many ways.

[–]PriestTheyCalledHimBisexual 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

Ugh that is as bad as a heterosexual academic I knew in the early 1990s who said he is 'queer and a male lesbian' because he would cheat on his wife with poor prostitutes that had the misfortune of having to have sex with him, I hope they overcharged him.

[–]dreamgermsbisexual nightmare 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

WOW, he sounds like a gem! Straight people who refer to themselves as queer are the worst.

[–]PriestTheyCalledHimBisexual 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I met others like this, like a guy at a concert who told me how he is "pansexual" but when I told him I am bisexual and that this other guy friend he was with was cute he told me how he is really heterosexual. 🙄