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[–]Uranian 46 insightful - 9 fun46 insightful - 8 fun47 insightful - 9 fun -  (6 children)

The entitlement! The whole app has to change because you feel "invalidated"? Get with the programme sis, most gay men could tell you stories about being "invalidated" by the "community" for not meeting the standards of male attractiveness: too fat, too old, too disabled, too black...

Stop whining, set up your own fucking app and leave Grindr users alone. It's a solid gold guarantee that 99% of the men on there will not be interested in your manmuff

[–]ren-the-lotus 29 insightful - 2 fun29 insightful - 1 fun30 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

THIS!! the gay dating scene is a very hard and unforgiving space...

[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Any dating scene is an unforgiving space. Dating is exclusionary by design. What don't they understand about that?

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 25 insightful - 1 fun25 insightful - 0 fun26 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

They’ve already ruined Grindr, now they’re ruining Scruff. Lesbians have lost Herr as well. Because these people don’t want to set up their own apps. They want control.

[–]Uranian 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Colonisation of all gay and lesbian spaces with their gender woo

[–]ukrdude10 14 insightful - 4 fun14 insightful - 3 fun15 insightful - 4 fun -  (1 child)

Seeking validation on Grindr of all places lol. I get rejected all the time, even though I'm a 23 year old white guy on the slimmer side.

[–]Uranian 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I've never been on Grindr but FFS did they honestly think a bunch of gay men looking for a fuck WOULDN'T be cock-oriented?