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[–]DefinitelyNotJannatPussy connoisseur 32 insightful - 2 fun32 insightful - 1 fun33 insightful - 2 fun -  (7 children)

Idk if my opinion is popular or what but i think it's totally ok to not want to date someone if they are fat (but don't be rude to that person!) . I'd prefer a partner who actually cared about their body. Most people who scream 'fatphobia' usually are too lazy for that

[–]dramasexual 10 insightful - 3 fun10 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

It's okay to not want to date someone for any reason at all. Who you want to fuck isn't up for public debate.

[–]DefinitelyNotJannatPussy connoisseur 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Agreed

[–]insta 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I'd prefer a partner who actually cared about their body.

The "fatphobia" crowd also forgets that being fit to some/most people is also a lifestyle. Loads of people go to the gym regularly or go for a run or ride a bike for hours on end. I'm an avid cyclist and I would love to find a partner who shares my hobby and will go cycling with me. If you can't go on a 2 hour hike without being insanely out of breath, it's not "fatphobia" for not wanting to date that person.

[–]DefinitelyNotJannatPussy connoisseur 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Exactly. I regularly play tennis in the tennis court near my house. I've played with some people who were out of breath after having to run around to hit the ball TWICE. it's surprising how out of shape some people can be.