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I'm black (and obese) and have never whined about anyone not wanting to date me. Maybe because there are plenty of people who have wanted to date me, so I've never felt undesirable. I live in the Southeast where the black population and obese population are the highest, so I don't feel like an unwanted/unattractive minority. If I lived on the West Coast or in the Pacific Northwest, I'd likely have low self-esteem though. Location is very important.