I frequent tiktok a lot for some laughs and a lot of the times I see so many women who don't want to be women on there. Like I see a girl and I'm like "wow she's cute" and go on her bio and I see "they/them" it's like I can just tell what their pronouns are going to be if they have a certain look.
It's kind of disappointing because it feels like no one wants to be a woman these days, especially non binary people that identify as lesbians. They want to be called a lesbian but don't want to be labeled as female. That's just confusing to me.
Also the age demographic of tiktok are teens so they are very impressionable and influenced by the things around them. I feel like most of these kids calling themselves trans are doing it because it's the cool new thing or they want to be different. Not like other girls.
There is a lesbian on there that I watch and she recently changed her pronouns to they/them just because she doesn't like it when old men refer to her as "sweetie, darling, miss" basically anything feminine.
Feeling that way doesn't mean that you don't want to be a woman. Many women don't like men cat calling them or trying to call them pet names. That doesn't mean that you're actually not a woman because you don't like being called those words.
Has anyone had this experience? I'm new here so I'm not sure if I'm posting in the right place but I wanted to share my feelings of what I've been seeing lately.
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