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    [–]hyunnahh 6 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

    Or straight!

    [–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 6 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

    Lol I just commented that this is basically where I was for a long time. I just thought of myself as "not straight" because bisexuality didn't feel like it suited me because I didn't want men to think I might be interested in them and found it really hard to be attracted to them and uninterested in them all around, but I felt like I couldn't rule out the entire male population on this planet. I was basically just coming up with every excuse where I wasn't gay. . . . I was. And still am. I sure as shit wasn't looking for a label for that though. It was a branding I was avoiding. I didn't want to be "The Lesbian" everywhere I went. Why would I ever want to be "The Pomosexual?"